Reflections on race and faith written when I was 20 years old — Pictures on the fridge, big happy family — dog included, “Keep Calm and Pray”, Jesus paraphernalia, an entire collection of board games, from Taboo to Blockus to something called Ubongo. They house 17 students from their daughter’s college, then the mom apologizes for not having enough bathrooms. “Naw, we survived,”…